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What a Life Coach Really Does—And How to Know If I’m the Right One for You

There’s a huge misconception about life coaches. Some people think we’re here to tell you what to do. Nope. Others assume we’re life coaches because we have everything perfectly figured out. Absolutely not.

I have been through hell and back—more than once. And most of it... a result of my own mistakes. The difference is, I learn from them. That’s actually one of my special interests—learning, evolving, and sharing what I discover. If you’re someone who wants to learn from your own experiences (and maybe even avoid a few pitfalls by learning from others’), then we might just be a great match.

What I Actually Do as a Life Coach

My role isn’t to dictate or prescribe. It’s to deeply understand you.

I take the time to truly get to know my clients—their past experiences, their beliefs (both limiting and empowering), their emotional scars, and the mental frameworks they operate from. I learn about their vision for the future, the direction they want to take, and, ultimately, the life they truly want to live.

Once we set a clear direction—one that resonates with you and feels desirable—we break it down into small, actionable steps. These steps are designed to be achievable, ensuring that you can build momentum as you move forward. With each small step you take, you gain confidence and keep heading in the direction of your main goal. When you stay on this path, that main goal is inevitably going to be reached. It’s all about progress, not perfection.

From there, we work together to make it happen.

Through a free, no-strings-attached clarity call, we determine whether we’re the right fit. If we are, I become a partner in your growth—an extension of you. I help you clarify what you want, recognize what’s holding you back, and make the necessary shifts to align your mindset, habits, and beliefs with your vision. The goal? To reach the end of your life with minimal (or no) regrets, feeling deeply satisfied with the life you created.

At the end of the day, we all have a choice: Live by default, or live by design.

Neither is right or wrong—it just depends on what feels true for you.

How to Choose the Right Life Coach

Not every coach is right for every client. That’s why my process is based on mutual choice.

In our clarity call, we’ll have a real conversation—by phone or in person (if you’re local)—to see if we align. The most important thing? That we both feel the “click.” This means:

• You feel comfortable being completely yourself around me.

• You feel safe, supported, and heard.

• We both sense that our connection will allow for real growth.

If we don’t feel that alignment, I will be upfront about it—because my job is to stay on your agenda, not mine.

What Makes Me Different as a Coach?

Over the years, I’ve heard the same things from clients, colleagues, and friends about what makes me stand out. If these qualities resonate with you, we might be the right match:

1. I see and process life differently.

My neurodivergence allows me to pick up on things most people miss. I connect dots others don’t even see, giving you fresh insights and new perspectives.

2. I live with a rare level of authenticity.

I help people break free from societal conditioning and align with their true selves—not just because I talk about it, but because I live it.

3. I can take a holistic approach to life and transformation.

Mental health, gut health, trauma, mindset, career, relationships—it’s all connected. If so desired by you, I can help you see and address the whole picture.  Not everyone wants that and that is a choice for you.

4. I’ve overcome what many can’t even imagine.

Chronic fatigue, gut issues, narcissistic abuse, massive life transitions—I’ve been through it all. My resilience and firsthand experience mean I don’t just offer theoretical advice—I offer real understanding.

5. I invest deeply in others’ growth.

Whether coaching clients, leading teams, or supporting individuals, I don’t just help—I elevate.

6. I integrate logic and intuition.

Some coaches are intuitive, others are analytical. I’m both. I pick up on the layers underneath what you say—your emotions, subconscious patterns, and hidden roadblocks.

7. I don’t just survive—I evolve.

Every challenge I’ve faced has fueled growth. If you’re ready to evolve, I’ll meet you there.

People often call me “different” or “unusual” because I don’t fit into traditional molds. I don’t follow a predefined path—I carve my own. If that sounds like the kind of guide you want on your journey, let’s talk.

Let’s Find Out If We’re the Right Fit

If this resonates with you, the next step is simple:

Book a free clarity call where we’ll chat, no pressure, no obligations—just two people seeing if we’re the right fit to work together.

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Book a FREE introductory 30-min chat, and find out how you can start your journey towards a better you today!